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Comment, Then Ask

Build a two-part turn: pick a comment like “I like playing ball”, then pick the question that goes with it.

About 5 to 11 · Keeping a chat going: a comment, then a question on the same topic.

Pick a level

Change it any time. Every level is a good level.

Answer your way. Tap it, point to it, say it, sign it, or show a card or device. Every way counts the same.

Pick what to play

For grown-ups

Away from the screen: Take turns: one person makes a comment, the other asks a question about it.

Easy
Two action words, like eat or play with.
Medium
Match a reply to the question that follows on from it.
Hard
Pick the follow-on question from look-alikes that drift off topic.
  • Start on Easy, even if it looks too simple. Success first, then move up when your child wants to.
  • Say the lines aloud together. Hearing a phrase in a real voice is the point of the game.
  • These are common patterns, not rules. Your child's own way of talking is real talking.
  • Wait a little longer than feels natural. Quiet thinking time is part of it.
  • If they pick something you did not expect, ask them to tell you about it. Their reason is often interesting.
  • Pointing, signing, a device or a picture card are all real answers. Speaking is not the goal here.
  • Stop when it stops being fun. A few minutes, often, beats a long sitting.

A game and a starting point, not an assessment. All Talking Together games